I don't really know much about divorce legal mumbo jumbo, but if you listen to the guys, you should be fine Gavin.

Try to plan for every eventuality - imagine what 'evidence' she may come up with against you, and think of ways to disprove her evidence/refute her claims. Hearsay technically shouldn't be allowed in court, but it can help build up a profile of a person (Just like character witnesses can) A judge may take such evidence into consideration when making the final decision -if they believe it is relevant, so make sure any dirt you can dig up on her is good.

If you can think of any character witnesses that may go against you, try to sweeten them up a bit (Obviously this one will require caution coz it could backfire in court) 8O

Neighbours can be good witnesses, since they may have noticed any arguments you may have had with her recently. They may have even noticed patterns in your arguments (Ie. she started them) or they may simply think of you as a 'better parent'.

When you are in court, her lawyers will probably try to make you look incompetent, or try to confuse you so you end up damaging your own defense. Just keep calm and do some homework, and you'll be fine.

Remember, we'll be right behind you.

(It's a shame that my operatives can't help you, but of course, they can't interfere with the laws and justice system of another society )

Matress, any member of the Tal-shir caught doing work for other then our great Romulan Empire would be killed on the spot. Punishment may come to you for even thinking about such an offer.
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Knowledge is power. To be unknown, is to be unconquerable.

Gavin is God of programming and all things electronic. To him, knowledge is power and unconquerability.

My loyalty is (And always shall be) to the Star Empire, which is why I have taken this personal great risk. By helping god, I will have furthered our electronic existance!

Besides, you can't go wrong with a God on your side.

All Hail the Great Electronic God Gavin!

Hail! Hail! Hail! Bow now and toss Gravel at his feet in reverence!