5 minutes to move ships?? That sounds not at all right, unless you have realy massive fleets. You do know that it is possible to group your ships together in task forces of 9 ships max, do you? Select a ship and press the 'redeploy' button to that end. That way you can move your fleets as a whole instead of all ships seperately.
Just keep on trying. If you are familiair with MoO, then this shouldn't be hard to learn.
What do you think of MoO3, btw? I also played MoO2 quite and had the worst dissapointment in years when I tried MoO3.
ow, and welcome to the forums, btw!